I watched as a middle-aged man was introduced to a five-year old child. He looked trapped, as if confronted by an IRS auditor, unsure if he should turn and run, or act friendly. After the introductions, he tried—in the hopelessly lost way adults do—to engage the child in conversation. He asked the three standard questions: How old are you? What do you want to be when you grow up? What is your favorite color?
As adults introductions are much the same. The first question—How old are you? — immediately springs to mind (particularly if cosmetic surgery appears to be involved) but is never asked. The second—What do you do?—is always, with mind-numbing regularity, asked. But I’ve never been to a cocktail party where someone has asked me my favorite color. Why have we dropped the question that might actually tell us something about how the person sees the world, what they love, what they find beautiful? In our busy oh-so-important adult lives, does color no longer matter?
Color does matter. Color is taste for the eyes.
This time of year, my soul longs for orange—for the changing foliage of
Here in on the Gulf Coast, fall brings an equally spectacular orange—the migrations of millions of Monarch butterflies, which feast on our goldenrod and saltbush before catching thermal winds across the gulf waters to Mexico. Our trees, too, turn orange, as thousands of butterflies rest on branches, slowly flapping their wings, drying them in the sun. On warm November afternoons, as you drive by the salt marshes, clouds of orange butterflies flutter merrily across the road.
It is magical, out of a Disney cartoon.
There is a wonderful word synesthesia used mostly in poetry criticism which means a sensation produced in one sense that evokes another, such as hearing a sound that makes you visualize a certain color. Or a color that fills you with sensual longing.
Open your culinary heart to color. Maybe you don’t have time for that watercolor class you want to take, but you can paint with your dinner menus. A few spears of bright green broccoli, dried apricots in a salad, a slice of tomato on a white fillet of fish. Be mindful of color when you serve food. Choose a plate color that highlights your supper.
Color is all about feeling and beauty, about bringing pleasure and delight. And about showing off! Look at me! I am delicious!
So at your next holiday party, after you discover the occupation of your new acquaintance, and after your silent soliloquy “to Botox or not to Botox, that is the question,” take a sip from your glass of garnet-red Mad Housewife Merlot and ask about her favorite color. What’s yours?
Pumpkin Ravioli with Sage Butter
Homemade ravioli always impresses, and this recipe is a wonderful treat for Thanksgiving. It’s a lot easier than pie crust, and it freezes well. Get yourself a ravioli mold (kind of looks like an ice cube tray), and wow your friends. Their eyes are guaranteed to light up with pleasure. Serve with Mad Housewife Chardonnay.
Filling:
2 cups fresh pumpkin or red-skinned sweet potatoes (canned pumpkin also works)
1/2 cup grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese
4 amaretti (Italian almond cookies-pecan shortbread cookies also work)
1/3 cup apple or pear mostarda (optional, see note below)
1 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
1/8 teaspoon nutmeg
2 tablespoons fresh parsley
pinch of salt and black pepper
Pasta:
2 cups flour
3 large eggs
1 tablespoon milk
Sauce:
2 tablespoons butter
¼ cup chopped sage (or dried sage)
fresh parsley or thyme for garnish
¼ cup shaved Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese for garnish
1. Start with the filling. Either roast pumpkin (cut into chunks) or skinned sweet potato in 400 degree oven for 40 minutes, or microwave for 8 minutes. Cool, peel, and mash.
2. Pulverize amaretti by hand or in a food processor. Add pumpkin, mostarda, lemon juice, and mix until smooth. Scrape into a bowl and stir in ½ cup cheese, parsley, nutmeg, salt and pepper. Set aside.
3. Make pasta. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together flour and pinch salt. Mound flour, create a well in center, and add eggs and milk. Using fork, slowly mix together, then knead in bowl until dough forms complete mass. Transfer dough to floured surface and knead 8 minutes until dough is smooth. Wrap dough in plastic and let rest for 30 minutes.
4. Roll dough into thin, five-inch wide sheets, about 1/16 inch thick, or run through pasta maker. Flour one side and lay on ravioli mold. Spoon filling into ravioli dents (do not be tempted to be generous—1/2 teaspoon will do). Use your finger to run cold water around edges of each ravioli (to make glue). Cover with second sheet of dough, and cut ravioli into separate dumplings by rolling the rolling pin over the mold.
5. You can store fresh ravioli for several days (or freeze). When you are ready to make dinner, cook ravioli in gently boiling water for about 4-5 minutes (or 15 minutes if frozen). While water boils, brown butter, and add the sage.
6. Using slotted spoon, gently transfer ravioli to warm serving plate. Top with melted sage butter, shaved cheese, black pepper, and more herbs.
Notes: 1. Ravioli or tortelli di zucca (pumpkin) is popular throughout
2. When making the pasta, do not be discouraged if the dough is too sticky. Knead in more flour, let it rest, and try again. Be sure to use plenty of flour when rolling out the dough, and dust the dough before you put it on the mold. Otherwise, you’ll never get it out. If you make a mess of it like I did the first time, gather all the bit and pieces together, roll into a ball, knead, let it rest, and try again.